Although the best way to get your sweetheart an engagement ring she will love, is to let her pick one herself, most guys find it harder to propose this way. However, sometimes it takes the trying on of many rings before she finds the one that makes her feel perfect in her own way, which after all, is part of the point, isn't it? Its not a bad idea to pick it out though, and chances are if you put effort into it you can get one that she would love the same as if she picked it out, if not more! But if you aren't letting her pick her own ring you must keep in mind while you are doing your shopping that she will have to wear and look at this ring every day for many years to come. You want the ring you buy her to be something that you know she will love and appreciate and the amount of effort you put into choosing one shows in the ring and the results.

First thing's first, Pay attention to what she likes! If you plan on marrying this woman it will definitely come in handy knowing her jewelery likes and dislikes. There are more than one ways to do this, a good way, without saying to much is watching what she wears. If she's the type of girl who always wears accessories with her outfits, you should start to develop a sense of what she has a taste for. If she's not that kind of girl, Don't fear! There are other options. Next time you're flipping through a magazine or watching a movie, ask her opinion on the jewelry some other women are wearing, this way you should get an idea of her opinions. Watch carefully for her styles like does she wear bold jewelery, classic or vintage? This will give you some good information to point out to the sales representative while you're shopping.

Also consider what will look most flattering on her hands. Would she prefer a cluster of gems, or a solitaire diamond sitting alone on a plan wedding band? What colors does she look best in? Another important thing to factor in is her lifestyle. You need to ask yourself things like, Will a big bulky ring get in her way at work? Does she need something small and professional looking? There are also fancy extras to think about, what shape does she want? A round or a square, or maybe something more unique like a heart. Maybe you should think about getting it engraved. Over time, if you pay attention you will be able to answer most of these questions, if you're still unsure, swear a family member to secrecy and ask their opinion, you'll most likely need to contact one of them for her size anyway. So Don't worry, think about these things, ask for peoples advice, and most importantly, think long and hard about what kind of ring to get your partner.